is there anyway that can control parents from hurting their kids?

never respect your thoughts,even your thoughts are for their good.when they found out,they yell at you for not telling them and all crappy reasons.the reasons are their yell and their threat(like cut the life supply or send you to asylum).....just the suprem thought,if you have an idea that they don't have,even on the most small life things, they not happy,and you get busted on trivia things for it.they may lose comfort and money and even health by rejecting the idea,but they feel good.....

(((((((((((((((cusack10)))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now. I don't know why parents seem to do that to their kids. Unfortunately, no one can control what others think, do or say. All we have control over is how we react and what we think, do and say.

I hope things get better for you soon.

Hugssss
J

ty and thank heavens that somebody responded.i got no peace even in my rest,have to listen to bs,and i am becoming bs.......i meant how to stop them,my mom right now...i can't react,she seem got big support,she alway oppressively speak to me,all room locks are taken off,even the toilet,you have to listen,or she would smash the radio set or take away the tv cable,she can touch you and hit you,make you have to hear the bs yelling.and she spit all over you when she speak.you react,then you cursed the parents,it seemed big social forbidden rule,and she got money,just a call,the so called doc say "cursing parents,seriously ill,must hospitalized right away."and she can send me there,........private prison.too many examples,if i say this to a counsellor here on the phone,i just did,she would say why you mind this little things,then i say how to stop the bully,she would say,why call it bully,example some little things.i don't know why i have to say this years after years,no one responded?(i don't get too much chance to talk to others,just got the old computer linked,and she got the phone restricted)my brain rottened.anyhow,i just can't react,express what i think,do and say.unless i can stop the bully to my basic peace.how to make her give me some room,how to fight for this.plz,don't doubt me,the wrong is not on me.do some deferernce.and don't say,i am busy with other things.i know i am talking nonsense,just because i have been lived in it all time.

Hi cusack...

Just wanted to let you know that I read your post...can't sleep right now...mind fuzzy...having trouble following your post...I also forget easy too...

If your parents have this kind of control...you are under 18?

I do believe that each of us have no idea how our words and actions will actually effect other people...it sounds like that may be the case here...but I'm a bit sketchy...

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ty and thank heavens that somebody responded.i got no peace even in my rest,have to listen to bs,and i am becoming bs.......i meant how to stop them,my mom right now...i can't react,she seem got big support,she alway oppressively speak to me,all room locks are taken off,even the toilet,you have to listen,or she would smash the radio set or take away the tv cable,she can touch you and hit you,make you have to hear the bs yelling.and she spit all over you when she speak.you react,then you cursed the parents,it seemed big social forbidden rule,and she got money,just a call,the so called doc say "cursing parents,seriously ill,must hospitalized right away."and she can send me there,........private prison.too many examples,if i say this to a counsellor here on the phone,i just did,she would say why you mind this little things,then i say how to stop the bully,she would say,why call it bully,example some little things.

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It sounds as though you got a poor doc and a poor counsellor for sure. Can you figure any way to contact others?

cusack10 ~ i'm sorry things are not good for you right now. just wanted you to know that i read your post and i hope you feel better! if you can, keep posting. take care of yourself!!!

tks,gos.
and they got me upset,and i was *****ed about by ppl because of the upset look,include all alone and sad and stay home all time.though they,the family,never "admit" the outside pressure before me,they use the pressure to press me more.
i know everything in this situ,just ask how to stop this.for one i know,i need some backup,even the backup voice and letters towards their ear and eyes,hers right now.
i would've posted others things,but she came up before i woke up,i was messed up from head to toe again,and lasted the whole day,that is the only second i am clear.

you effect,infulence the ppl and the world,you add your "value",whether you do it in good way or bad way.make you think you can change something.now i am trying to say why she did it,i would've said it but got messed up,as i mentioned.i am still headaching.
my parents both got the same and strange character,and met.....they dont get along well with their marrige and social life...say my mom right now,.....(just some keywords or segment on this is left in my mind.)so she can bust me up and infulence a ppl and feel good.lost.......in bad way.just use evil force on her unreasoning point.....it is so in general.
ppl don't have to live as human.i am tester for this.ppl in good package,good clothes,good skin,carrying a good bag with good books in it,but dirty sht inside.i don't know them,they don't know me either,i am no harm in any way to them,they sight me,they just know i am easy to busted.or just bust along as others do.that's effect thing imo.

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ppl don't have to live as human.i am tester for this.ppl in good package,good clothes,good skin,carrying a good bag with good books in it,but dirty sht inside.i don't know them,they don't know me either,i am no harm in any way to them,they sight me,they just know i am easy to busted.or just bust along as others do.that's effect thing imo.

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I think you have a lot of understanding. Is there some way you can find some help? What area (country, state, city) are you located in? Can you find some clinics or mental health services from local government in your area?

oh,i hate ppl's gossip,i woke up clear and showed on the balcony,and got shot,againgain.worst is i can't fight back cos i got my mom tearing me apart if i do.freaking everybody can attack me.i know i am avoiding,and this goes vicious circulation,give me a reason to brace up.
i just got a computer,what keywords should i put in search.....plz,some help,not some cure.i know exactly what are pressing me down,need a friend beside me to give me some motivation.
"don't break me down today"."words can't break me down."

hello...

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Hello.

what do you mean?
i said hello b/c i replied myself three times.i'm hell of sick of being abandoned with no reason given.

should know how ppl think,howwwwwwwwww.

again,the securitys on morning shift passing below just yell a word when i just moved in the window of balcony.fuk that.i can do nothing about that,as the ...you know,the residents hire them.
it is a freaking bang.in the morning,crrrrrrrrrrrrrra....

cusack,

I think people are at a loss at this point to help you with any more information. Unfortunately, I don't believe any of us are qualified to help you the way you are hoping we could help you.

If there is a mental health clinic where you are from, or if you have a medical doctor, I would strongly suggest going and seeing a therapist or doctor to help you with your issues.

I'm sorry you are having such a difficult time. I wish we could help you more, but we are folks like you who are struggling and we don't have all the answers ourselves.

I wish you well and will keep you in my prayers.

*Gentle Hugs*
J

aw.prayers?you can have the dead in your prayers too."care enough for the living".do somefthing

every my reply follows the topic in you reply,you all just go get a doctor,if so,why am i here.

Hi Cusack,

I also wish that I knew how to help you, but I just don't know what to say. The answers are out there somewhere, but we all have to find our own answers. Nobody can control another person, so I don't know how to keep your parents from hurting you. A lot of us came from families where we got hurt, and we can't change our families. All we can change is ourselves. If you are trying to change your parents, or trying to make them the parents you wish that you had, you will be disappointed. You can change the way that you interact with them though. Maybe, for a week, just as an experiment, you could try saying "yes" to everything your mom asks you to do. See if it shocks her, or if she treats you differently. Maybe she will think that she is going crazy. Try it for a week and then see what happens.

Good luck to you!
Rap

ooo,she drag the lines and drop the modem down from the desk to the floor,again,when she mop the floor.when you inform her something,she yell back"go,go,go,i know,i know,leave me alone."when she mess it up in spite of your info,she also yell"how could i know it,"yell and threaten.it is the second time the modem dropped in the same way.she is back,it is a flat out messed up.oh,i am here because of this modem,right?
rap,i am working on it..

if the modem is flat out broken,it takes a lot of sht and sht time to get a new one,now i just can't live one day without the web.i am talking sht,i know.

no sense.

bejond the thought of the world.

holy,the speed down down down.and for their stardard on me,a bit speed is all good.

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No, we still see you and think of you. But we're not sure what to do about it.