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Old Dec 19, 2023, 12:36 PM
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@@ What did you decide about the Marzipan?
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 12:37 PM
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I'm sorry about Stormi Art.

I hope the vet can help you get a better understanding of why he's not his usual self.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 01:06 PM
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I’ve been going though Belvita too over the past two days, bought them because they were on sale. The Strawberry ones are nice.
I didnt get strawberry in my 6 pack. The blueberry are very tasty. The orange cranberry taste like the orange hazelnut biscotti my mom used to make for xmas.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 01:10 PM
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*curls up on Couch, whimpers*
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 02:27 PM
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 03:13 PM
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 04:08 PM
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Thanks LT and Artie,

Steve's 40th birthday has hit me hard this year.
I'm especially feeling the impact of the shift in my support system.
Grateful for the support that I have, but talking on the phone is not my favourite thing.

I know I have to be honest with R when we reconvene in January, but finding a way to do so without impacting her feels...challenging.

I could not be more grateful that E has offered another check in on Friday.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 07:28 PM
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 07:38 PM
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 07:55 PM
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 08:48 PM
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I used a mobile vet who came to my home last Feb. when I had to put my ancient boy down. They are national - my sibling used them for his dog this summer. Lap of Love is the name. The vet came to the house and was very kind to my cat and me. It saved him (the cat) from the car ride, vet office etc. - I would use them again.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 09:00 PM
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I used a mobile vet who came to my home last Feb. when I had to put my ancient boy down. They are national - my sibling used them for his dog this summer. Lap of Love is the name. The vet came to the house and was very kind to my cat and me. It saved him (the cat) from the car ride, vet office etc. - I would use them again.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 10:11 PM
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Hugs, Artie--I'm sorry for your loss and for what is going on with Stormy.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 03:11 AM
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Artie...((( )))

I'm sorry you have to deal with so much right now.
Sitting with you in it.

I hope L is helpful when you see her next.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 11:27 AM
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 11:28 AM
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 11:34 AM
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I'm so sorry, Artie. 18 years is a good long life for a cat, but still too short for us humans.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 11:41 AM
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 01:54 PM
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 02:46 PM
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I’m sorry, Art. It’s hard to say goodbye to our furry ones. Hugs.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 02:51 PM
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Old Dec 21, 2023, 01:38 AM
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I did good and socialized tonight. H's work had a Christmas dinner at a fancy restaurant at a resort. Food was good, but not worth the price. People were good too. Kind and friendly, like last time. I tried really hard to be engaged. I was drawn to this one woman. She was loud and talking openly about her problems. She just felt so real. And her confidence in herself attracted others, too. They're a really good group of people. We just wish they'd pay H more because we are barely making ends meet. Somehow, H invited his boss and his family over to our place and then out to dinner AND invited a coworker and her H out to a separate dinner. That will be interesting... I just wish we were the same class. Our interests are just so different.
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Old Dec 21, 2023, 10:08 AM
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Old Dec 21, 2023, 10:09 AM
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Old Dec 21, 2023, 10:15 AM
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Hugs, Artie. Sending good thoughts to you!
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